...love remembers

Balanced Partners

We all need, and require, a balance in our social lives. You may have heard someone say about a couple, " they are so good together". Or,you may have heard someone say about two friends, "they are like two peas in a pod". Get it?

When we describe the relationship between two friends, or two lovers, and how good they are, we are talking about balanced partners.

They are partners that not only get along well with each other, but are people that compliment each other. Each bringing something to the relationship that the other person lacks, making them together whole or balanced.

Whether in lovers or in friends, we each have the love and respect for each other, and enjoy the others company. But not only that, we each bring our individual strengths and our point's of view to the table to share with the other.

In doing so, we make each of us better. We make each other look and understand another point of view that the other had not considered. By learning from each other, we become better people, better friends, and better lovers.

Do you meet and experience these people once in your life? No, not at all. You will find that as we grow, and the seasons in our lives change, we will come across many people in our lives that will bring you balance. The idea behind this relationship is to learn from each other.

Chances are that the people you become balanced partners with in your life, will be close to you for the rest of your lives. So sit up and take notice of the balanced partners that may come across your path in life's journey.

Many who find balanced partners in their lives become very close friends. They will speak with each other many times during a day. They seem to want to share everything with them. Their thoughts, their problems, their hopes and their dreams. They will do everything together. It's almost like eek and ike. Two people as one.

But with these people in this kind of a relationship, they can start as friends. And because of their balance and the time they will spend together, they can be tempted to take it to the next level into a romantic relationship.

Beware here! I wrote another page about being friends after lovers, and it doesn't usually turn out to be balanced partners. If you care about this balance, and this person, just stay friends. If you do, you will have this person for the rest of your life.

But once you cross the line as balanced partners into lovers, and your relationship doesn't work out, you will part ways never to be lovers, or friends, for the rest of your life. And that's a long time!

Balance is needed in all of our lives. Without it, we become unbalanced and we will never quite figure out what's wrong, and why things don't feel right, or why we feel something is missing in our lives, or why we don't grow. Think about the people that cross your path and come into your lives, and enjoy the balance they bring to your life.